tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post1370716995130989156..comments2023-05-31T10:46:19.766-05:00Comments on It Is Not My Shame to Bear: My Ex Is What Happened To My FaceNotMyShametoBearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-87158645926446217552014-07-06T14:57:34.331-05:002014-07-06T14:57:34.331-05:00Hun what's wrong? What happened?
Whatever it ...Hun what's wrong? What happened?<br /><br />Whatever it is, this is just a brief moment in your life. It may be ridiculously uncomfortable and earth shattering painful, but this is a MOMENT, whatever is going on right now is NOT forever. I know if probably feels like this is the WORST thing that could ever happen to you, but this is simply the worst thing thta has happened this moment and I promise you, moments pass.<br /><br />Please email me if you need to talk<br /><br />notmyshametobear@gmail.comNotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-5895861900209499812014-07-06T03:22:58.258-05:002014-07-06T03:22:58.258-05:00Eden, I feel so ashamed right now. I can't mov...Eden, I feel so ashamed right now. I can't move. I can't stand to be alive. My face is burning. I don't know what to do. Please tell me what to do. I can't concentrate at all and I just want for a beam to fall on top of me or to shoot myself. I want to stop feeling ashamed but at the same time feel like I deserve shame.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-19116987409837828732014-03-14T19:13:52.727-05:002014-03-14T19:13:52.727-05:00You are pretty fucking awesome yourself ;)You are pretty fucking awesome yourself ;)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-50302737589218277572014-01-28T14:41:08.582-06:002014-01-28T14:41:08.582-06:00Lady, you fucking rock. Big hugs from NJ. Lady, you fucking rock. Big hugs from NJ. Ashleynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-61131699085211041102014-01-27T00:09:46.314-06:002014-01-27T00:09:46.314-06:00and also, thank you!!!and also, thank you!!!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-36671665320014406372014-01-27T00:09:24.427-06:002014-01-27T00:09:24.427-06:00Sure!! I'll have to find a pic with a profile ...Sure!! I'll have to find a pic with a profile view. I was GOOD at hiding from camera's, I hated them, so I'll have to do a little digging :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-61551524047562081622014-01-26T17:00:46.763-06:002014-01-26T17:00:46.763-06:00Hi!
for curiosity purposes, is it possible to post...Hi!<br />for curiosity purposes, is it possible to post a picture of your nose before the surgery? <br />btw your nose looks GREAT now. I hope that even though you have had some complications, you're happy with it :)Alexnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-69749578459553314512014-01-24T12:00:18.602-06:002014-01-24T12:00:18.602-06:00Aw, that's so sweet, I love it!! Thank you. Ge...Aw, that's so sweet, I love it!! Thank you. Getting better everyday :) I really feel like I know all of you guys too. So glad we have all "met."<br /><br />Send me your blog link!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-381716129900743392014-01-24T10:23:33.834-06:002014-01-24T10:23:33.834-06:00So glad to hear you are doing better. Love getting...So glad to hear you are doing better. Love getting the emails and reading your posts to see how things are. Might be in the UK but I feel this sense of protection over you; like I know you for real. You've inspired me to start up blogging again, so thank you!Pathfinderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05306118588824097939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-87505637941144348702014-01-23T20:49:11.162-06:002014-01-23T20:49:11.162-06:00Giant hug back at ya girly!!! :-)Giant hug back at ya girly!!! :-)The Loud Introverthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14041510211245361351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-19941979629216599172014-01-23T20:23:42.888-06:002014-01-23T20:23:42.888-06:00Now you're making me get teary eyed!! Aw, than...Now you're making me get teary eyed!! Aw, thank you!!<br /><br />It really means the world to me when you guys take the time to say nice things ;) Makes me happy and smiley.<br /><br />Thank you dear friend. Sending you a GIANT hug!!!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-61870232279047805592014-01-23T20:05:24.315-06:002014-01-23T20:05:24.315-06:00You are an AWESOME woman!! i have read all of your...You are an AWESOME woman!! i have read all of your posts to date!! ( can we say stalker! lol ) ugh..It's just so interesting to see how you can overcome everything that comes your way. Pleeease believe me when i tell you that you have been such a blessing emotionally to me!! I thank God for your life, because you are precious. (getting teary eyed and can't see the keyboard so i will stop here! lol) I don't know you, but i thank you! !<3The Loud Introverthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14041510211245361351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-7068828023202666812014-01-23T12:38:40.524-06:002014-01-23T12:38:40.524-06:00awwww, thank you!! :)awwww, thank you!! :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-65574714745451315882014-01-23T10:40:52.163-06:002014-01-23T10:40:52.163-06:00Your story is amazing...I love your strength and c...Your story is amazing...I love your strength and courage! Keep strong, sister!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-67148246871165049972014-01-22T20:44:05.424-06:002014-01-22T20:44:05.424-06:00You always make me smile :)
2014 had better wat...You always make me smile :) <br /><br />2014 had better watch out, you may have tried to take me down already, but I bounced back!!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-11654406433236744512014-01-22T20:40:46.185-06:002014-01-22T20:40:46.185-06:00So, a nice new nose comes with a side of feisty? G...So, a nice new nose comes with a side of feisty? Good for you! Onward and slowly upward! You are doing it!<br /><br />I am sure you are glad this procedure is done and you have taken your face back - while taking your life back. All good things are happening in 2014 for you. I just know it!<br /><br />Much love and many hugs from the east coastflamingohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02301982325295011773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-44456831872081177532014-01-22T20:25:58.475-06:002014-01-22T20:25:58.475-06:00Eeeee, my heart is smiley :) Thank youEeeee, my heart is smiley :) Thank youNotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-90374955239975722592014-01-22T20:25:41.791-06:002014-01-22T20:25:41.791-06:00Ha, LOVE IT.
Swallowing, is awesome. Breathing, ...Ha, LOVE IT. <br /><br />Swallowing, is awesome. Breathing, rocks my world right now. I slept for like 15 hours last night, I'm not even kidding. After feeling like I had been suffocating for the last few nights, my gosh did I need that!!<br /><br />Love ya!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-39633841096027886662014-01-22T20:24:44.665-06:002014-01-22T20:24:44.665-06:00Haha!! I love that you never get bored here. Oh, i...Haha!! I love that you never get bored here. Oh, if only you could see the chaos that goes on inside of my head....<br /><br />Thank you for your sweet words, they always mean the world to me!! It really does bring a smile to my face when you all take the time out of your busy days to send me a nice comment. It reminds me why I am doing this. So thank you!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-1908668470884630692014-01-22T20:23:26.310-06:002014-01-22T20:23:26.310-06:00I'm so sorry that you are going through a roug...I'm so sorry that you are going through a rough time :( I wish I could reach through the computer and give you a real hug!! If you want to talk, you can email me at notmyshametobear@gmail.com<br /><br />Thank you for your sweet words :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-2285090519574814562014-01-22T20:22:00.691-06:002014-01-22T20:22:00.691-06:00Thank you hun :)
HugsThank you hun :) <br /><br />HugsNotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-70794895724915776332014-01-22T19:42:51.966-06:002014-01-22T19:42:51.966-06:00You are an awesome person, and an awesome writer. ...You are an awesome person, and an awesome writer. Take care.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-45530698159736419272014-01-22T18:47:29.283-06:002014-01-22T18:47:29.283-06:00You are awesome. I'm just going to throw that ...You are awesome. I'm just going to throw that out there. You're absolutely right - you have nothing to be ashamed of so hold your head high and be proud of where you are today.<br /><br />So glad to hear you're healing well from the surgery. How's the breathing and swallowing going?Jennifernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-52399246748145274512014-01-22T18:33:01.959-06:002014-01-22T18:33:01.959-06:00Hi, it's nice to know You're back, so I ca...Hi, it's nice to know You're back, so I can still be a part of Your journey. Reading Your blog has helped a lot plus I have never ever got bored here (and it happens a lot on a daily basis, so it's a big thing!). I am also reading Your blog daily, Your courage and honesty inspires me even in the worst days, so thank You and I hope Your berries were delicious! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-11115063116599091642014-01-22T18:06:44.000-06:002014-01-22T18:06:44.000-06:00I know you don't know me. But I just read your...I know you don't know me. But I just read your newest article on xojane. I am in the middle of a high profile rape case (I am the victim) and this past week, I've been deciding whether or not to file charges. I've been pretty dead set on NO for many reasons, fear of a situation like yours is one of them. But I am feeling enormous pressure, especially because my rapist is a public figure, to press charges to save other women from him but also I think because a lot of people don't believe my story and want proof or whatever and think they will get that from a criminal case. Anyway, it's been an awful week and I'm more depressed than I ever have been and still don't know what to do. But thank you for sharing your story, it's another thing for me to consider and make me feel okay about myself if I decide not to press charges. I wish I could talk to you, you are amazing! I've read your blog and other articles published before and just look up to you so much so thanks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com