tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post197672218086689811..comments2023-05-31T10:46:19.766-05:00Comments on It Is Not My Shame to Bear: Monsters Are RealNotMyShametoBearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-59228144984395169622016-08-23T13:51:12.193-05:002016-08-23T13:51:12.193-05:00agreed Haileyagreed HaileyAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15843245185561931761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-46575232395960029342014-05-04T13:37:17.128-05:002014-05-04T13:37:17.128-05:00You know, I had never even heard that term until s...You know, I had never even heard that term until starting this blog, but my gosh can I relate....NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-68993481045040725682014-05-04T08:05:42.197-05:002014-05-04T08:05:42.197-05:00There is a psychological term for people who deny ...There is a psychological term for people who deny things that have happened- it's called gaslighting. Typically, gaslighting is utilized to make the victim second guess themselves and their reality. Here is a link about gaslighting: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=gaslightingDominohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12824921774999306596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-21060991747958911152014-04-26T17:38:06.880-05:002014-04-26T17:38:06.880-05:00 Thanks hun :) Sounds marvelous. Thanks hun :) Sounds marvelous. NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-75907023510526575792014-04-26T14:57:05.659-05:002014-04-26T14:57:05.659-05:00Eden, this was a difficult post for me read.
I wi...Eden, this was a difficult post for me read.<br /><br />I wish I could have come out of your closet, as the most beautiful magical fairy you've ever known, gave you a big hug, changed you into a fairy too, and together, left through a crack in a window, and went on our way to the most wonderful adventure ever.<br /><br />Nathalie<br />xoxoxoxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-51006475422014017902014-02-26T14:38:22.948-06:002014-02-26T14:38:22.948-06:00Bravo!Bravo!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02297459842081697643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-89335831245993510972013-12-27T18:22:58.072-06:002013-12-27T18:22:58.072-06:00You're welcome, but it's the absolute trut...You're welcome, but it's the absolute truth. It's like a line of of a Steven King novel. It conveys so much emotion and imagery. <br /><br />Although the darkness it comes from is heart breaking, but it appears you're on the right path now or at least can see it from where you are. Trevor Younghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02774138419631259653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-15632793944923787262013-12-27T07:24:31.153-06:002013-12-27T07:24:31.153-06:00All very good questions! I hate to pull this line,...All very good questions! I hate to pull this line, but.....you can read all about it in my book! Gotta save some things for later ;)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-81819821325082917102013-12-27T07:23:26.017-06:002013-12-27T07:23:26.017-06:00You probably saved her life. You rock!!You probably saved her life. You rock!!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-78436711366402879192013-12-27T07:23:03.481-06:002013-12-27T07:23:03.481-06:00Aw, thank you so much :) I was in therapy for quit...Aw, thank you so much :) I was in therapy for quite a while, but recently "graduated." I love you Reddit people!!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-48645004131388757622013-12-27T07:22:12.343-06:002013-12-27T07:22:12.343-06:00Oh gosh lol!!!Oh gosh lol!!!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-91380321009296186582013-12-27T07:21:57.736-06:002013-12-27T07:21:57.736-06:00I think these days, its either laugh or cry, so I ...I think these days, its either laugh or cry, so I might as well laugh!!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-38014553067508318502013-12-27T07:21:27.188-06:002013-12-27T07:21:27.188-06:00Thank you!!Thank you!!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-43355148480901888342013-12-27T07:21:06.189-06:002013-12-27T07:21:06.189-06:00I do not, another story for another post lolI do not, another story for another post lolNotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-52983696109920210062013-12-27T07:20:11.714-06:002013-12-27T07:20:11.714-06:00I get silly excited when I know someone likes what...I get silly excited when I know someone likes what I have written hehe. So thanks for sharing ;)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-78964546890926206452013-12-27T07:19:32.084-06:002013-12-27T07:19:32.084-06:00Thank you Trevor :)Thank you Trevor :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-53952060675355699742013-12-27T03:40:12.107-06:002013-12-27T03:40:12.107-06:00"Sometimes, the innocent live in closets whil..."Sometimes, the innocent live in closets while the monsters roam free." This is both beautiful and sad at the same time. This is moving on a whole other level. Well said. Trevor Younghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02774138419631259653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-86743953666627794542013-12-25T22:25:57.891-06:002013-12-25T22:25:57.891-06:00AgreedAgreedNotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-30688289822260282072013-12-25T22:12:56.377-06:002013-12-25T22:12:56.377-06:00Your writing is incredible. I haven't read any...Your writing is incredible. I haven't read anything so very moving in a really long time. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-4607737261156107732013-12-13T23:59:01.476-06:002013-12-13T23:59:01.476-06:00That is fucked up. Seriously, that is FUCKED upThat is fucked up. Seriously, that is FUCKED upAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-82836774408432083892013-12-13T19:33:34.302-06:002013-12-13T19:33:34.302-06:00Oh you don't have to forget. I am not one to h...Oh you don't have to forget. I am not one to hold grudges, but I do however, remember facts. Forever. Lol. Don't forget, but don't continue to let it have hold over you. Easier said then done, lots or reminders and self affirmations later, you will get there!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-28296217071422444202013-12-13T19:29:06.629-06:002013-12-13T19:29:06.629-06:00I think what you said is something I need to do. I...I think what you said is something I need to do. Is let them go. I'm bitter towards my parents and although people have always told me to forgive/forget, etc, I think what you said is right on the money. "Let them go" LakerzLadynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-41960095591652913892013-12-13T14:04:10.297-06:002013-12-13T14:04:10.297-06:00I tend to agree with you. It made me so angry for ...I tend to agree with you. It made me so angry for so long, but I finally decided that I just needed to let it go. I needed to let them go. I didn't want to become that old bitter woman, and bitterness stems from years of anger hardening you. I just needed to accept that I knew the truth, and at the end of the day, that is all that matters to me.NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-84575659793867786252013-12-13T13:54:41.889-06:002013-12-13T13:54:41.889-06:00They know, trust me. People tend to act like they ...They know, trust me. People tend to act like they don't remember sometimes because of the pain and/or most likely guilt of not having said anything to anyone for you or not having been abused themselves.<br /><br />My mother denies things she did to me but I remember things from when I was 5 like they were yesterday. People use time as an excuse for memories fading a lot but you just don't forget things like that. <br />LakerzLadynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-84520867916258574502013-12-13T13:45:26.880-06:002013-12-13T13:45:26.880-06:00No, I don't :( They got older, and since they ...No, I don't :( They got older, and since they were younger then me, their memories faded. They didn't endure the abuse, so they have a hard time understanding what I went throughNotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.com