tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post3017207032045905746..comments2023-05-31T10:46:19.766-05:00Comments on It Is Not My Shame to Bear: My Friend Was MurderedNotMyShametoBearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comBlogger42125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-35577177571523726122015-12-10T09:55:54.690-06:002015-12-10T09:55:54.690-06:00What a horrible position for you to be in :( Dome...What a horrible position for you to be in :( Domestic abuse is so complicated and is so hard to figure out, but in the end no one wins. I'll keep them and you in my prayers.NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-47408089019105691172015-12-09T23:16:32.329-06:002015-12-09T23:16:32.329-06:00It's so sad to hear about your friend and her ...It's so sad to hear about your friend and her children. She sounded like a wonderful lady. I'm worried this will be my sister one day. She's married to an abusive drug addict and have 3 children. He's beat her and the middle child (not his) on several occasions and that was before they were married I tried to get her to leave him but she refused. Now they are "happily" married living with our mother. Our own mother has seen the abuse and JUST sits there allowing it to happen. I love my sister and her children dearly, but I refuse to be around them anymore to protect my own baby from seeing anything. I foresee attending a funeral one day soon because of abuse. Daniellenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-54924242160206126382015-12-09T00:52:58.035-06:002015-12-09T00:52:58.035-06:00Aw, thank you!! I was blessed to have known her an...Aw, thank you!! I was blessed to have known her and thankful that I am able to share with you guys what she taught me :) And thank you for your sweet words!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-13704770366916274152015-12-09T00:50:07.827-06:002015-12-09T00:50:07.827-06:00I'm sorry that you had to go through that, but...I'm sorry that you had to go through that, but I'm happy you found your way here :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-62740979707611359082015-12-08T22:30:13.253-06:002015-12-08T22:30:13.253-06:00I am sorry. Please continue to live through her. I...I am sorry. Please continue to live through her. I will use your story to help my students in need. Find strength in the Sun and know she is always with you!michellenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-39688277219336630172015-12-08T13:23:19.654-06:002015-12-08T13:23:19.654-06:00So sorry to hear about your friend. I just read yo...So sorry to hear about your friend. I just read your article in Yahoo about the Christmas gifts. You seem like such an awesome person, and a great mother. That is the best gift you could give a child. Trust me, my mother left us when I was 5 years old, and I always wanted to have a mother. Keep on keeping on, and know that there are people in the world that you inspire through your writing. Have a good day!Hopeful Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16093172380711865517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-5960668113356356712015-12-07T10:17:03.224-06:002015-12-07T10:17:03.224-06:00I am sorry for your loss. You have a wonderful gi...I am sorry for your loss. You have a wonderful gift of writing your feelings, thoughts and emotions. To share with other people. Your writing is what heals you, keeps you sane in an insane world. We are told we can make choices but sometimes our lives still feel stagnant and bleak. You were blessed to have such a wonderful person in your life , even for a short time that it may seem. Please continue with your writing...for like the suns rays, your words are touching others lives who may be similar to yours. You are never alone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-11581888467900880102015-12-06T19:27:55.226-06:002015-12-06T19:27:55.226-06:00Thank you love :) I appreciate all your prayers!Thank you love :) I appreciate all your prayers!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-73583947528523429272015-11-24T04:08:04.431-06:002015-11-24T04:08:04.431-06:00Oh Eden...I am so very far behind in reading your ...Oh Eden...I am so very far behind in reading your blog due to being wrapped up in myself with my health and my own depressing relationship with my "new" husband...I am so very sorry, so very very sorry for the loss of your friend. From the description you've given of this young lady, not only have you lost a friend but the world and her own children have lost a great person. I pray for her family, especially her mother and children as well as for you that the Lord will take the pain of loosing her with His love, peace, and comfort....I ask that He give you all the strength to carry on in her children what she had just began.<br />God bless and may He keep you safe and in His care, always.<br />Love you, young 'un.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06807145392333015953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-54563666497198596232015-11-19T16:29:24.513-06:002015-11-19T16:29:24.513-06:00Eden, I'd been wondering if something was goin...Eden, I'd been wondering if something was going on, and when I finally checked and saw you posted this I just didn't know what to say.<br /><br />But even with the help you weren't able to give her while she was alive (but obviously would have) - by telling her story, her whole story, she will live on.<br /><br />This was the saddest, most beautiful thing I have ever read. And I don't think I know of anyone else who'd be able to make sense of something so senseless.CDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-11983814396687049592015-11-19T01:19:29.300-06:002015-11-19T01:19:29.300-06:00Aw, thank you :)
*hugs*Aw, thank you :)<br /><br />*hugs*NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-33549896319376403422015-11-15T09:08:17.448-06:002015-11-15T09:08:17.448-06:00so sorry you lost your friend. your writing is tru...so sorry you lost your friend. your writing is truly special. god gave you a gift.imadushbaghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12362917333877442789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-10021777595192977472015-11-12T20:38:35.868-06:002015-11-12T20:38:35.868-06:00Aw, thanks love.Aw, thanks love.NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-43567670859065964852015-11-12T20:38:21.250-06:002015-11-12T20:38:21.250-06:00Thank you so much :)
*hugs*Thank you so much :)<br /><br />*hugs*NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-55585402351641763862015-11-12T20:38:03.165-06:002015-11-12T20:38:03.165-06:00I'm trying!
*hugs*I'm trying! <br /><br />*hugs*NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-45783367847257575892015-11-12T20:37:48.433-06:002015-11-12T20:37:48.433-06:00Thank you so much :)Thank you so much :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-14156111100407458382015-11-12T20:37:34.732-06:002015-11-12T20:37:34.732-06:00Thank you for your prayers.
*hugs*Thank you for your prayers.<br /><br />*hugs*NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-22910379666395784392015-11-12T20:37:12.464-06:002015-11-12T20:37:12.464-06:00I really hope I don't die anytime soon, but I ...I really hope I don't die anytime soon, but I hope that when my times comes I can also leave a little something behind for the ones I love :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-30579751965338347132015-11-12T20:36:31.193-06:002015-11-12T20:36:31.193-06:00I'm glad that the message was helpful, that ma...I'm glad that the message was helpful, that makes me feel good :) <br /><br />And thank you for letting me know that my sun is even still shining through all the clouds that keep getting in my way!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-79108092826318963702015-11-12T20:35:33.897-06:002015-11-12T20:35:33.897-06:00*hugs**hugs*NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-54944830011007866962015-11-12T20:35:25.157-06:002015-11-12T20:35:25.157-06:00Thank you.
*hugs*Thank you.<br /><br />*hugs*NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-456958301963428072015-11-12T20:35:13.619-06:002015-11-12T20:35:13.619-06:00Thank you :)Thank you :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-82967734397691167932015-11-10T14:45:49.859-06:002015-11-10T14:45:49.859-06:00Yes no words could convey the emptiness and sorrow...Yes no words could convey the emptiness and sorrow that I feel for you and your friend, only silent tears and the hope her children know love, hope and more importantly....life.Berniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14861696444604068223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-42197277523996205822015-11-10T07:51:27.715-06:002015-11-10T07:51:27.715-06:00Sorry for your loss. Her story sounds awful but at...Sorry for your loss. Her story sounds awful but at the same time she seems to overcome each problem and help a lot of people un the process. I think we can learn a lot from her.Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-36773749663672059172015-11-09T19:43:52.533-06:002015-11-09T19:43:52.533-06:00Don't ever give up:) So sorry about your frien...Don't ever give up:) So sorry about your friend and the pain you feel Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05616748286898831488noreply@blogger.com