tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post5186186077290472650..comments2023-05-31T10:46:19.766-05:00Comments on It Is Not My Shame to Bear: On Going To Court This Week, PregnantNotMyShametoBearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-58667665404202801262017-10-06T16:56:52.300-05:002017-10-06T16:56:52.300-05:00Heck yeah! Come live in the bus. :DHeck yeah! Come live in the bus. :DEatabagofrichardshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08049463741637011276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-50632073315852205162017-10-06T16:39:25.268-05:002017-10-06T16:39:25.268-05:00*tear* thank you! *tear* thank you! NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-13411048115010333592017-10-06T16:39:07.699-05:002017-10-06T16:39:07.699-05:00Thank you chica. If not, I can always run away and...Thank you chica. If not, I can always run away and come live with you haha!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-24511778320483731352017-10-06T16:38:22.377-05:002017-10-06T16:38:22.377-05:00I will very happily take that hug!I will very happily take that hug!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-9598196333491879492017-10-06T16:37:58.168-05:002017-10-06T16:37:58.168-05:00Awwww, we love you :) Awwww, we love you :) NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-40110532843616747412017-10-06T16:37:32.047-05:002017-10-06T16:37:32.047-05:00It is a boy! I was hoping for a boy as well lol. S...It is a boy! I was hoping for a boy as well lol. So excited!<br /><br />A fairytale it is :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-77162973122489953672017-10-05T17:37:50.132-05:002017-10-05T17:37:50.132-05:00Wait, so it's a boy? The Boy Child will have a...Wait, so it's a boy? The Boy Child will have a brother close in age, and The Girl Child will have two younger brothers... she is you! Kinda.<br /><br />I was actually kinda hoping it was a boy, since they DO have two sisters. It will be interesting to see what happens there... but either way, your kids will realize him walking out on them was not a "dad thing", it was a "meth addict" thing. Just sucks that they'll have to be older before they have that understanding.<br /><br />Can't wait until baby #3 is born. Pretty close to a fairytale ending, I think. =)CDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-38723847964582095452017-10-05T09:57:44.182-05:002017-10-05T09:57:44.182-05:00Well said!Well said!Frisbee Boy's Momnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-79090817584323558492017-10-05T09:55:06.617-05:002017-10-05T09:55:06.617-05:00You know I read these words and I know The Guy... ...You know I read these words and I know The Guy... all I can say is he is truly a winner. He understands you and your situation down to its core and very well be the most sensitive person I've ever met. I know him and I believe his words. You both are handling the questions that come up with the Boy Child and The Girl child with such grace and love. Very proud of you honey💚💚Frisbee Boy's Momnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-13400852648368642322017-10-04T18:15:33.252-05:002017-10-04T18:15:33.252-05:00Eden we love you! XXOO-- your way! Another GREAT a...Eden we love you! XXOO-- your way! Another GREAT and very inspiring post, thank you!Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-89968357499100181092017-10-04T16:14:22.055-05:002017-10-04T16:14:22.055-05:00Good luck! You’ve got this!Good luck! You’ve got this!Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-19131403190592643512017-10-04T16:12:22.503-05:002017-10-04T16:12:22.503-05:00<3<3Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-64088437305624353272017-10-04T16:12:01.077-05:002017-10-04T16:12:01.077-05:00 I know exactly how she feels as I am in the exact... I know exactly how she feels as I am in the exact same situation.Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-20318283158488133462017-10-04T16:11:42.395-05:002017-10-04T16:11:42.395-05:00Will be thinking of you tomorrow. You are stronger...Will be thinking of you tomorrow. You are stronger than you know.Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-62719380643027315182017-10-04T16:11:21.994-05:002017-10-04T16:11:21.994-05:00You are so strong and brave and capable and smart ...You are so strong and brave and capable and smart and loving and inspiring! I am so happy that your kids have a loving dad who never misses a beat to calm their fears, to remind them how much he loves them and how lucky he is to love them, and to help them realize that "dads" come in all forms and in our lives when we need them the most. I don't think he could have given her a more perfect response, one filled with love, reassurance, and an eagerness to learn and grow with her now! Boy oh boy, so many tears for me this time. Your Guy is quite extraordinary and I am so glad that you two found your way to each other! I know that you can't erase your past, but I am so glad that you are making so many wonderful/new/amazing/loving memories with him and the kids! You ALL deserve that! Keep your head held high tomorrow in court, you always and continue to make the best choices for you and your family. Don't let your past take away any of the happiness that you have right in front of you and in your future! Sending lots of good thoughts and love to you!Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-33719634387596722002017-10-04T16:10:54.022-05:002017-10-04T16:10:54.022-05:00This brought tears to my eyes!! You have come such... This brought tears to my eyes!! You have come such a long way and deserve every ounce of happiness that comes your way! I'm so glad your babies now have the "daddy" they truly deserve!Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-40968842766574266692017-10-04T14:07:27.395-05:002017-10-04T14:07:27.395-05:00I just want to give you a hug. You are so strong. ...I just want to give you a hug. You are so strong. You can get through this.<br /><br /><3afairytale84https://www.blogger.com/profile/03530192464441555381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-56738671508209225362017-10-04T11:54:07.562-05:002017-10-04T11:54:07.562-05:00Good luck dear! 👍🏿Good luck dear! 👍🏿Instagramnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-23718400309910570222017-10-04T11:53:27.022-05:002017-10-04T11:53:27.022-05:00Ugh, your post is making me cry. It really sounds ...Ugh, your post is making me cry. It really sounds like you have an amazing man. I've never met one like that, so willing and eager to be apart of your child's life. I'm so happy for you and your family and congrats on the little one! My son is 13 now and he has no idea what it's like to have a father. I had always wished his own father would step up and stop being an asshole, but that never happened. So I've done what I can for my son to make our little life seem as normal as possible. He has video games like all his other friends, he was in cub scouts like all his other friends, I let him do sleep overs and see his friends and all of his friends families are so nice to my son and he has his grandparents, to which his grandfather is the closest thing he'll have to a father figure. Sorry, my post turned into a mini novel. I'm so happy for you and yours kids!Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-32237210654383323012017-10-04T07:39:11.472-05:002017-10-04T07:39:11.472-05:00Hang in there, Eden. I hope things go ok in court...Hang in there, Eden. I hope things go ok in court. You can get through this too. It's ok that it's hard, though. I'd be worried a bit if this whole thing was a breeze and you were nothing but happy, because that's not reality--that's not dealing with life. By acknowledging the hard feelings and honoring them, you can get through this and put those hard things behind you, instead of carrying them with you every day. *hugs*Eatabagofrichardshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08049463741637011276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-45183255955803065552017-10-04T07:34:34.884-05:002017-10-04T07:34:34.884-05:00I couldn't be happier for you to have finally ...I couldn't be happier for you to have finally found what family really means.<br /><br />Debbie A-HAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com