tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post5920175424744970086..comments2023-05-31T10:46:19.766-05:00Comments on It Is Not My Shame to Bear: This Is Not A Post I Wanted To WriteNotMyShametoBearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comBlogger54125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-30530152470489039112016-03-31T14:04:27.993-05:002016-03-31T14:04:27.993-05:00I'm so confused-- didn't you say at the en...I'm so confused-- didn't you say at the end of your last post that you really weren't sure if you'd be able to commit to this guy, that you were having doubts, that you needed time? And then he comes along and says the same thing, and all of a sudden it's over? It sounds to me like you were both in the same place. It had only been a few months, nobody was demanding that you "put a ring on it" immediately. It seemed like you were cool with dating him, but not anyone else, but not exactly committing to him either while you figured out how you felt, until he told you about his doubts and then you were like "oh, actually let's have an open relationship". I'm not judging, obviously relationship decisions are very personal and everybody feels differently and acts differently, but I just don't get it! What am I missing?Gilanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-32652280608551484052015-07-12T22:47:55.188-05:002015-07-12T22:47:55.188-05:00It wasn't fun lol. I'm glad (and sad) that...It wasn't fun lol. I'm glad (and sad) that you understand :)<br /><br />*hugs*NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-222955717476498612015-07-07T03:28:53.365-05:002015-07-07T03:28:53.365-05:00As a grown child of alcoholics, I can confirm how ...As a grown child of alcoholics, I can confirm how difficult it is to have a grown up conversation of your feelings, having them be validated and validating someone else's without being on the defensive ALL the time.<br /><br />I can only imagine how sucky this situation was for you Eden.,<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18219041508940514467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-64641809825233230112015-01-19T10:36:38.111-06:002015-01-19T10:36:38.111-06:00YOU are awesome Steven. Love your comments and I t...YOU are awesome Steven. Love your comments and I think its great to give Eden a male point of view.<br />Some of those ((hugs) back to you!Butterfly14https://www.blogger.com/profile/02926860094911883915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-39629727588597380692015-01-18T20:20:17.217-06:002015-01-18T20:20:17.217-06:00I know, it's a NO WORK WEEKEND!! I slacked on ...I know, it's a NO WORK WEEKEND!! I slacked on things all week because my head was in the sand. Needed to catch up today :(NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-17171236745168783642015-01-18T20:18:07.769-06:002015-01-18T20:18:07.769-06:00Those stupid spell casters! I cannot imagine how t...Those stupid spell casters! I cannot imagine how that is even profitable for them.<br /><br />Thank you, I will take all of those hugs!! I always appreciate knowing you are thinking about me :)<br /><br />*hugs*NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-90339361897384868932015-01-18T19:30:14.985-06:002015-01-18T19:30:14.985-06:00John Snow, Eden didn't want to put her kids in...John Snow, Eden didn't want to put her kids in the position of growing attached to someone when there was a chance that he might leave. This is a huge deal. As a kid of a divorced mom, it was rare that we met someone she was dating and only when it was serious and long term. Granted, I wasn't 6 or 7 years old, I was more like 11 or 12, but still, a parent has to play it safe and protect her children from that disappointment. <br /><br />And I'm calling you out on this line:<br /><br />"I'm sure he will want to have kids with you in the future and everything would be fine if you had the patience to deal with it."<br /><br />This is you putting blame on Eden and that's not cool. Joelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06173489343314752879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-60226019250092432872015-01-18T19:09:48.122-06:002015-01-18T19:09:48.122-06:00So, I'm way late here, sorry. Life and all tha...So, I'm way late here, sorry. Life and all that. You know how it is.<br /><br />I don't know that I can add anything to what's already been said. So I'd just like to offer virtual hugs and virtual wine and let you know I'm thinking about you. :)<br /><br />Also. Ugh. The spell caster spam is back. Those people are whack jobs.afairytale84https://www.blogger.com/profile/03530192464441555381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-41226904567808206742015-01-18T15:26:55.728-06:002015-01-18T15:26:55.728-06:00Hooray for first and last!! :D I always enjoy ch...Hooray for first and last!! :D I always enjoy chatting. And why are you doing comments on Sunday? NO WORK WEEKENDS! ;)Eatabagofrichardshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08049463741637011276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-34623034624797422452015-01-18T15:01:46.011-06:002015-01-18T15:01:46.011-06:00Look for my new post tonight Jon :)Look for my new post tonight Jon :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-67756428007876705272015-01-18T15:01:07.234-06:002015-01-18T15:01:07.234-06:00Not really sure what to say here lol....
As for t...Not really sure what to say here lol....<br /><br />As for the repliers, thank you :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-24891777630756663572015-01-18T14:58:28.056-06:002015-01-18T14:58:28.056-06:00Funny how four days later you started and (so far)...Funny how four days later you started and (so far) ended the comment thread! Thanks for chatting with me via email :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-36642171506454512092015-01-18T14:57:43.149-06:002015-01-18T14:57:43.149-06:00Aw, thanks :)
*hugs*Aw, thanks :)<br /><br />*hugs*NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-14331880401364246392015-01-18T14:57:18.843-06:002015-01-18T14:57:18.843-06:00Thank you so much :) We obviously weren't righ...Thank you so much :) We obviously weren't right for each other, but our communication was a blessing. It really helped getting through this knowing that each of us felt heard and understood :)<br /><br />*hugs*NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-5269852752490652722015-01-18T14:56:18.062-06:002015-01-18T14:56:18.062-06:00I love so much of what you said. Thank you :)I love so much of what you said. Thank you :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-10680388186166643632015-01-18T14:55:43.767-06:002015-01-18T14:55:43.767-06:00"There, there," hahaha! That gave me a g..."There, there," hahaha! That gave me a good laugh. I had to look up the single dad laughing guy after reading this and you are right, it does look like him!!<br /><br />It's not though, but they do look VERY much alike. Creepy!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-23171446451285097232015-01-18T14:54:34.804-06:002015-01-18T14:54:34.804-06:00Thank you :)Thank you :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-70695375268644845112015-01-18T14:54:00.892-06:002015-01-18T14:54:00.892-06:00Yea, his longest relationship up until this point ...Yea, his longest relationship up until this point was only a year and it was long distance. I think my life was just too much, too fast :(NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-48921825165288448692015-01-18T14:52:57.059-06:002015-01-18T14:52:57.059-06:00Look for my upcoming blog post!
Hugs and thank yo...Look for my upcoming blog post!<br /><br />Hugs and thank you for ALL the insights, even the ones I don't always want to hear :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-18808485011858847632015-01-18T14:52:14.627-06:002015-01-18T14:52:14.627-06:00Yep :( Still hurts though!
*hugs*
Thanks for b...Yep :( Still hurts though! <br /><br />*hugs*<br /><br />Thanks for being here!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-88206649523636873202015-01-18T14:51:42.698-06:002015-01-18T14:51:42.698-06:00Thank you :) It just wasn't something I could...Thank you :) It just wasn't something I could risk right now :(NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-66547231456954104692015-01-18T14:50:42.765-06:002015-01-18T14:50:42.765-06:00Agreed!! Look for my next post
*hugs*Agreed!! Look for my next post <br /><br />*hugs*NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-19281954064466422772015-01-18T14:49:59.875-06:002015-01-18T14:49:59.875-06:00Sorry your comment got eaten. That happens to me a...Sorry your comment got eaten. That happens to me as well so I've learnd to highlight and copy before I hit publish so that if it gets eaten I can just repaste it :)<br /><br />Thank you for your kind words, I'm responding to everyone in the next post.<br /><br />I'll take all eleventy-billion of those hugs!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-2009317550174564082015-01-18T14:48:16.567-06:002015-01-18T14:48:16.567-06:00Thanks, it's good to be reminded that it's...Thanks, it's good to be reminded that it's ok to feel like THIS SUCKS. :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-91935391943073519072015-01-18T14:47:44.425-06:002015-01-18T14:47:44.425-06:00Thank you dearie, I need all those hugs!
*hugs*Thank you dearie, I need all those hugs!<br /><br />*hugs*NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.com