tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post6324132446896738268..comments2023-05-31T10:46:19.766-05:00Comments on It Is Not My Shame to Bear: A Court Date, A DCFS Case, And A Cry For HelpNotMyShametoBearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-74940324239957870312018-01-10T09:22:51.190-06:002018-01-10T09:22:51.190-06:00Oh brother, the trolls just look for anything to c...Oh brother, the trolls just look for anything to complain about don't they? Have you seen the pictures she posts of her kids? They do EVERYTHING. They are always somewhere, doing something fun/exciting/educational/adventurous. It's not like she has them locked in a box in the basement. If she wants to keep them safe, so what? It's a hell of a lot better than many other parents are doing these days. So what do you suggest you say to the parents whose kids got harmed after they weren't being properly monitored? "Well at least you weren't abused or monitored too closely." That's stupid. Go away, you sound dumb.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-43752378958653436822018-01-09T22:39:48.025-06:002018-01-09T22:39:48.025-06:00Helicopter parenting can be as harmful as neglectf...Helicopter parenting can be as harmful as neglectful parenting. You should try to lighten your ways now so your kids don't resent it when they grow older. You can't use the excuse, you only wanted what was best for them or at least your behavior wasn't abusive, if they end up harmed.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-36350212910892069692018-01-08T20:32:38.123-06:002018-01-08T20:32:38.123-06:00Thank you love :)Thank you love :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-57090296795000011222018-01-08T20:07:34.152-06:002018-01-08T20:07:34.152-06:00Prayers for wisdom for the new judge. Try not to b...Prayers for wisdom for the new judge. Try not to be so hard on yourself. You’re doing the best that you can and your kids know that. wandralonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13609757859843906605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-89022256465989589742018-01-08T13:01:43.436-06:002018-01-08T13:01:43.436-06:00Insert eyeroll...Insert eyeroll...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-115082816076573752018-01-06T19:18:13.435-06:002018-01-06T19:18:13.435-06:00It was a hard read. Your poor boy has been through...It was a hard read. Your poor boy has been through a ringer. Im glad the guy was able to let him know how special he isInstagramnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-43476212609595630642018-01-06T19:17:25.057-06:002018-01-06T19:17:25.057-06:00I'm just very proud of you, miss. You've b...I'm just very proud of you, miss. You've been using your beautiful face and being more open over this past year. I see amazing things for you and your beautiful family and hopefully an eventual end to the constant court drama. Can't wait for your newest little to join you all. =)Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-85657546855702439762018-01-06T11:46:48.476-06:002018-01-06T11:46:48.476-06:00I agree with this idea. I hope its a good option f...I agree with this idea. I hope its a good option for you and your family. Cut the ties and leave him and all his mess in the past. Y'all deserve to never have to discuss him again.Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-86808594310063417412018-01-06T11:30:33.898-06:002018-01-06T11:30:33.898-06:00Holy moly! I am shocked at what happened to your s...Holy moly! I am shocked at what happened to your son! Let’s hope the new judge sees thru the bullshit of your ex that the old judge wouldn’t. It’s about time he is forced to step up and do the right thing by his children. Sending you hugs and prayers!!! 🙏❤️Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-69196992887479800142018-01-05T22:09:03.995-06:002018-01-05T22:09:03.995-06:00Hang in there, you guys are doing great no matter ...Hang in there, you guys are doing great no matter what life doles out to you. I have found that some of the worst people out there can charm the pants off a snake. Have faith that the new judge sees what he is doing and slams him for it. Best wishes!!Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-41699823929298932642018-01-05T20:04:25.634-06:002018-01-05T20:04:25.634-06:00You got this!!You got this!!Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-90404177199830882172018-01-05T16:54:13.961-06:002018-01-05T16:54:13.961-06:00I’m so sorry you have to deal with all this. HigsI’m so sorry you have to deal with all this. HigsFacebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-18445243753021091732018-01-05T16:53:13.564-06:002018-01-05T16:53:13.564-06:00On top of everything you've had to endure, you...On top of everything you've had to endure, your son has been hurt in the care of someone he trusted? That breaks my heart. You and The Guy are amazing parents and your children are blessed to have you both in their lives!Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-92205946930999154342018-01-05T16:50:17.839-06:002018-01-05T16:50:17.839-06:00I can't even imagine what you and your husband... I can't even imagine what you and your husband went through. That someone can be so malicious and manipulative...makes me sick to my stomach just thinking about it. Fingers crossed that this new judge has some common sense (bec the last one DID NOT).Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-47676592995890750662018-01-05T14:23:29.397-06:002018-01-05T14:23:29.397-06:00You and The Guy are doing a great job with the kid...You and The Guy are doing a great job with the kids and I'm glad you all have each other.Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-38791493614094103392018-01-05T14:22:12.356-06:002018-01-05T14:22:12.356-06:00Praying for you and your family (hugs)Praying for you and your family (hugs)Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-11232205669371600862018-01-05T14:21:06.907-06:002018-01-05T14:21:06.907-06:00My heart broke into a million pieces reading this ...My heart broke into a million pieces reading this today...I am so sorry that on top of what you already go through on just a normal, regular basis, you now have to deal with an added issue. You had absolutely no way of knowing that this person hired to care for your son would do the opposite. Please don't ever doubt yourselves as parents...you and your husband are doing everything in the best possible way that you can and know how to. Sending lots of healing/loving thoughts to you all. I hope with all hope that the new judge is able to make a sound decision and pick your kids...they deserve that at the very least.Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-38364390074576663922018-01-05T12:25:52.567-06:002018-01-05T12:25:52.567-06:00And I also hope the new judge chooses the welfare ...And I also hope the new judge chooses the welfare of the kids.Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-23693340848602766202018-01-05T12:15:17.820-06:002018-01-05T12:15:17.820-06:00Look at one moms battle, she had education packets...Look at one moms battle, she had education packets you can send to judges. Prayers all goes wellFacebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-78879554135003828912018-01-05T12:14:49.245-06:002018-01-05T12:14:49.245-06:00*more hugs**more hugs*Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-52295260269624697972018-01-05T11:35:34.344-06:002018-01-05T11:35:34.344-06:00He's toxic. I hope you can all cut him out of ...He's toxic. I hope you can all cut him out of your lives someday.Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-22747028617711844812018-01-05T11:35:02.092-06:002018-01-05T11:35:02.092-06:00Best of luck to you, he is truly awful and you and...Best of luck to you, he is truly awful and you and your children have been repeatedly victimized by him and the court. I wish only good things for you all from here on out.Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-33162104811647144692018-01-05T11:29:37.374-06:002018-01-05T11:29:37.374-06:00I read this and all I can think is offer the ex th...I read this and all I can think is offer the ex the option of a lump sum, a big one, and let your husband adopt the children then walk away from that train wreck and never give him another minute of your time. If only he'd just pay that big settlement, I bet he never would.Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-57331827595118363232018-01-05T10:51:06.604-06:002018-01-05T10:51:06.604-06:00I am so sorry you all have had to endure this. Why...I am so sorry you all have had to endure this. Why the heck isn't your ex facing criminal charges? Can they prove his brain damage is due to his father's abuse? He should hang for this, the SOB...Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-19221886819411326442018-01-05T10:40:46.911-06:002018-01-05T10:40:46.911-06:00It is a real shame that humans can be so horrible....It is a real shame that humans can be so horrible. The saving grace is that humans can be so wonderful. I hope this new judge is one of the latter. May you be so blessed and so loved throughout this new year.Facebooknoreply@blogger.com