tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post6403130933921340486..comments2023-05-31T10:46:19.766-05:00Comments on It Is Not My Shame to Bear: I Got Into A Physical Fight With My New HusbandNotMyShametoBearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-43918042586174012252017-01-17T20:23:59.862-06:002017-01-17T20:23:59.862-06:00Unbelievable..My abuser refused to let me go..I wa...Unbelievable..My abuser refused to let me go..I was 30 by the time Divorce. I was with him from age 16 he almost 23. It took a lot of abuse for me to finally face the shame that I shouldn't have to. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-33374403372619531542017-01-15T16:43:59.110-06:002017-01-15T16:43:59.110-06:00Sweetheart, if he forced you or pressured you, tha...Sweetheart, if he forced you or pressured you, that was rape. If it's been 16 years since it happened and you still feel violated, Please talk to a counselor. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-57175072052202273742017-01-12T11:31:11.595-06:002017-01-12T11:31:11.595-06:00Right back at ya sista.Right back at ya sista.NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-73362781937056516072017-01-12T11:30:58.540-06:002017-01-12T11:30:58.540-06:00AWWWWW!! You seriously just made me CRY!! I don...AWWWWW!! You seriously just made me CRY!! I don't even know what to say, but thank you. That means a lot to me!!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-82123985128611882152017-01-12T11:30:05.375-06:002017-01-12T11:30:05.375-06:00It's bittersweet, knowing that others are also...It's bittersweet, knowing that others are also feeling this pain, and feeling thankful that I'm not the only one going through it.<br /><br />*hugs*NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-90881967015487447782017-01-12T11:29:35.361-06:002017-01-12T11:29:35.361-06:00Love you but don't ever ask me to babysit a fi...Love you but don't ever ask me to babysit a fish again. That thing creeped me out!!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-68198718994086016362017-01-12T11:29:10.098-06:002017-01-12T11:29:10.098-06:00You are always my biggest fan :)You are always my biggest fan :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-59918014984186904662017-01-12T11:28:58.163-06:002017-01-12T11:28:58.163-06:00I'm so sorry that you had a rough day :( We a...I'm so sorry that you had a rough day :( We all need to stick together!!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-67192233682248806042017-01-12T11:28:35.169-06:002017-01-12T11:28:35.169-06:00Thank you for letting me know that I'm not alo...Thank you for letting me know that I'm not alone <br /><br />*hugs*NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-47139358969931714042017-01-02T13:33:12.532-06:002017-01-02T13:33:12.532-06:00*hugs**hugs*afairytale84https://www.blogger.com/profile/03530192464441555381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-37894835420247624772016-12-29T20:21:10.971-06:002016-12-29T20:21:10.971-06:00Really enjoyed this post!Really enjoyed this post!Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-82715567153180226372016-12-29T15:57:27.652-06:002016-12-29T15:57:27.652-06:00Always impressed with your amazing ability to aric...Always impressed with your amazing ability to ariculate an emotion..your words put a tangibility to the pain of being a victim and the battle of becoming a survivor . In life most of us become who we are because of what we have experienced.. It is very seldom a person can help others become who they are because of their experiences. Your life,and your unselfish ability to share it, has helped countless people find their way to survivor. Your words and unrelenting desire to survive has given others the ability and hope they needed to add survivor to victim..Naked pop tartnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-33579172347003257702016-12-29T02:29:17.006-06:002016-12-29T02:29:17.006-06:00I had an experience when I was 18. Don't think...I had an experience when I was 18. Don't think it was rape, but a guy who I thought was my (friend), forced himself on me and used pressure to get me to do what he wanted. I always felt violated and to this day, almost 16yrs later I can see his face and remember his name. Him and I never talked again after it happened.Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-13824917623510408582016-12-29T02:28:52.259-06:002016-12-29T02:28:52.259-06:00That wasn't nice! I saw the tag and headline b...That wasn't nice! I saw the tag and headline but didn't have a chance to read the article so I was totally panicking. Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-28895384600034548862016-12-28T12:47:27.212-06:002016-12-28T12:47:27.212-06:00((((hugs)))) so many learn to be strong from your ...((((hugs)))) so many learn to be strong from your experience, because we know we are not aloneChristahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04940162361782241958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-49273481097124423462016-12-28T12:33:11.874-06:002016-12-28T12:33:11.874-06:00Well that definitely explains your "irrationa...Well that definitely explains your "irrational" fear/dislike of fish to me. Good post Eden.... XOXO 💋Frisbee Boy's Momnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-4539057799796751862016-12-28T12:12:21.424-06:002016-12-28T12:12:21.424-06:00SO many people need to hear or read these words Ed...SO many people need to hear or read these words Eden! Thank you for your brutal honesty.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09374160089747590558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-9612684977075892802016-12-28T10:01:40.659-06:002016-12-28T10:01:40.659-06:00Today is the anniversary of my rape and I am defin...Today is the anniversary of my rape and I am definitely not feeling ok today. I needed this today, so thank you. I've been following you for a few years now and I can definitely tell you that you've helped me a lot. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-54674291142838691652016-12-28T09:26:08.772-06:002016-12-28T09:26:08.772-06:00WOW that has hit home for me,
thank you for your ...WOW that has hit home for me, <br />thank you for your blog, it has helped me. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com