tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post1917526053281201888..comments2023-05-31T10:46:19.766-05:00Comments on It Is Not My Shame to Bear: I'll Take Insanity For $500NotMyShametoBearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-22906100936332510842016-07-27T14:11:26.511-05:002016-07-27T14:11:26.511-05:00It really is :( I'm sorry your mom went throu...It really is :( I'm sorry your mom went through this too!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-78981046736371222072016-07-27T14:10:55.454-05:002016-07-27T14:10:55.454-05:00Post is up :)Post is up :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-44416734231983090032016-07-27T14:10:45.895-05:002016-07-27T14:10:45.895-05:00They technically do, but the state is so backlogge...They technically do, but the state is so backlogged that it can take years, and even then at the VERY most, they put out a warrant, but the police don't really take the time to find him because they have more pressing issues than a guy who owes money. So realistically it can take decades. NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-5444527905753549462016-07-27T14:09:41.153-05:002016-07-27T14:09:41.153-05:00Yep, the money would go to me :)Yep, the money would go to me :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-82268127800413563322016-07-27T14:09:03.005-05:002016-07-27T14:09:03.005-05:00Child support is SOOO hard and everyone who hasn&#...Child support is SOOO hard and everyone who hasn't gone through the battle seems to think it's so easy. "Just go to court and get his wages garnished!"<br /><br />HAHAHAHAHA. Yea, sure, OK. Why didn't I think of that!?<br /><br />Ugh.<br /><br />I wish you luck on your case :) Don't give up!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-9190282514907942442016-07-25T08:27:07.835-05:002016-07-25T08:27:07.835-05:00It's Monday - let's hear it.It's Monday - let's hear it. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15843245185561931761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-55607544799106484012016-07-23T18:56:31.723-05:002016-07-23T18:56:31.723-05:00Your kids have Medicaid for health insurance, sinc...Your kids have Medicaid for health insurance, since you're unemployed and a single parent, correct? So wouldn't "they" go after him, not you? Just wondering!!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-88538350153148048082016-07-22T08:47:53.421-05:002016-07-22T08:47:53.421-05:00Good luck this morning!!Good luck this morning!!Gilanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-39531871546926006102016-07-21T16:53:49.208-05:002016-07-21T16:53:49.208-05:00So if he DOES go to jail... the bail money goes to...So if he DOES go to jail... the bail money goes to you, right? Yeah, like Snork said, under his mattress... he'll be able to get out of jail before the withdrawals kick in.<br /><br />Also, the answer to the clothing conundrum? Go commando. No one knows! XDCDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-68251139492665377422016-07-21T14:22:02.387-05:002016-07-21T14:22:02.387-05:00I really hate judges. The one my mother had when s...I really hate judges. The one my mother had when she was dealing with her now ex husband sounds like he could be your judge's brother. Ugh. It's so unfortunate when you get stuck with a crappy judge and can't switch to one who actually cares.afairytale84https://www.blogger.com/profile/03530192464441555381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-4857483724783321692016-07-21T13:52:34.334-05:002016-07-21T13:52:34.334-05:00getting custody of my sons was easy, child support...getting custody of my sons was easy, child support not in the least! they were born in a different state then where we reside and my husband lives in another... my sons and i have lived in our current state cor 3 years, the courts won't take it. so i'm waiting for my case to be taken. i sent the paperwork two weeks ago, have to call back in another 2-3 to see if they find me and find out if i have to go out for any court dates or how the eff it's going to work. ughhh, oh and my husband sent me a message last week "been awhile since we talked" i was going to respond "good let's keep it that way!" if he isn't asking to talk to our sons or our sons wanting to talk to him, i will not get into a conversation with him. i refuse to go down the road of feeling like shit and defending me/my sons. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-68723745989304011862016-07-21T11:48:01.839-05:002016-07-21T11:48:01.839-05:00Hahahaha. Well duh, of course that could happen. W...Hahahaha. Well duh, of course that could happen. WHY NOT?NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-40454605333693236222016-07-20T20:47:03.245-05:002016-07-20T20:47:03.245-05:00Maybe a giant asteroid will fall on the courthouse...Maybe a giant asteroid will fall on the courthouse and squish both your ex and the judge just before you open the door to go inside, and then a big glob of platinum will fall off the side of the asteroid and land in front of you, making you insanely rich.<br /><br />That could totally happen! :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09374160089747590558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-71726298377773318282016-07-20T17:32:46.841-05:002016-07-20T17:32:46.841-05:00Yep you have the same judge and you really can'...Yep you have the same judge and you really can't switch, it's called "judge shopping" and it's HIGHLY frowned upon. NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-56794182827813777912016-07-20T17:32:20.275-05:002016-07-20T17:32:20.275-05:00No kidding! They just drag everything on and on an...No kidding! They just drag everything on and on and on and on and on and on and ON.<br /><br />The judge is ALWAYS in a bad mood, and does his best to screw both parties over. NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-12391763153915684342016-07-20T17:31:27.785-05:002016-07-20T17:31:27.785-05:00Thank you love!Thank you love!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-27104191307625244692016-07-20T17:31:17.025-05:002016-07-20T17:31:17.025-05:00Ugh! I bet you're right :/Ugh! I bet you're right :/NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-5505982048944102912016-07-20T17:30:40.883-05:002016-07-20T17:30:40.883-05:00We can't find any of his accounts. As far as I...We can't find any of his accounts. As far as I know he hasn't had a bank account. They can garnish from his paychecks, but he always quits his job soon after they catch up with him and start taking the money. Then he goes off the radar for a while, gets another low-paying job, and because my state has such a backlog of child support cases, it's months before they catch up with him again. When they do, he just quits again and moves on. NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-73687127957513824072016-07-20T17:26:17.661-05:002016-07-20T17:26:17.661-05:00Send me. I like breaking limbs and making judges r...Send me. I like breaking limbs and making judges retire in shame.Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-47290966139876840642016-07-20T17:25:49.742-05:002016-07-20T17:25:49.742-05:00 What time Friday? I think if we all get together ... What time Friday? I think if we all get together and send you good juju at the same time it might help. If even just for a little temporary sanity.Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-5110633487984355042016-07-20T17:25:24.794-05:002016-07-20T17:25:24.794-05:00This just makes me so mad. I'm sorry for all t...This just makes me so mad. I'm sorry for all the trouble he is putting you through and I feel horrible for your children. =(Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-89828177194816574302016-07-20T16:55:03.311-05:002016-07-20T16:55:03.311-05:00Do you go up in front of the same judge every time...Do you go up in front of the same judge every time? Why?! This is just insane. I want to go shake the money out of him! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-45243479843611206922016-07-20T16:34:34.161-05:002016-07-20T16:34:34.161-05:00I recall Eden's ex was into drugs, it's po...I recall Eden's ex was into drugs, it's possible all his real money is stuffed into a mattress, while whatever he gets from legitimate work is spent immediately.snork maidenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12072762474400053537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-53785101695760021192016-07-20T16:33:10.915-05:002016-07-20T16:33:10.915-05:00(((()))) I guess it's time to just go through ...(((()))) I guess it's time to just go through the motions. The amount of public money that this circus has cost would doubtless pay the balance several times over. Maybe this time the judge will be in a bad mood and decide to jail him on a whim?snork maidenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12072762474400053537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-61632283623670041412016-07-20T11:54:05.083-05:002016-07-20T11:54:05.083-05:00Oooohhh Moscato! Moscato would be nice. Here's...Oooohhh Moscato! Moscato would be nice. Here's hoping it is a bit more celebratory than therapeutic this time. Sending love and prayers your way. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10639814469888646745noreply@blogger.com