tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post9015219594275913328..comments2023-05-31T10:46:19.766-05:00Comments on It Is Not My Shame to Bear: I'm Not There AnymoreNotMyShametoBearhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-21613831791134829972017-11-05T21:25:45.289-06:002017-11-05T21:25:45.289-06:00You are much too kind :)You are much too kind :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-73045037733462520222017-11-05T21:25:31.804-06:002017-11-05T21:25:31.804-06:00*hugs**hugs*NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-5869564188015477412017-10-09T15:34:52.196-05:002017-10-09T15:34:52.196-05:00You are a very strong woman-and your writing is f...You are a very strong woman-and your writing is fantastic.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-14093657608315295432017-10-08T13:59:06.919-05:002017-10-08T13:59:06.919-05:00*hugs* and <3*hugs* and <3afairytale84https://www.blogger.com/profile/03530192464441555381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-40422577824801956012017-10-07T19:51:12.350-05:002017-10-07T19:51:12.350-05:00Best comment yet. They truly deserve each other.
...Best comment yet. They truly deserve each other. <br />You have made a wonderful life for you and your kids. Living well is the best revengeButterfly14https://www.blogger.com/profile/02926860094911883915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-69541659366285818882017-10-06T21:08:33.973-05:002017-10-06T21:08:33.973-05:00I’m sorry, too, that it didn’t go as you hoped. I ...I’m sorry, too, that it didn’t go as you hoped. I think we all hoped for the best possible outcome. I hope your friend at least helped distract you.Instagramnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-25227777561478468982017-10-06T21:08:08.564-05:002017-10-06T21:08:08.564-05:00But you left us hanging! I hope the judge finally ...But you left us hanging! I hope the judge finally served him with a judgment that is fair for you and your sweet kids! (I know it will never be fair, and never make up for anything). Hopeful that you will never have to be in a courtroom with him again!Instagramnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-32722447373124951562017-10-06T21:06:51.063-05:002017-10-06T21:06:51.063-05:00Oh my dearest Eden-my thoughts and prayers are wit...Oh my dearest Eden-my thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and sending so many hugs!!Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-21523071209854581852017-10-06T21:06:31.416-05:002017-10-06T21:06:31.416-05:00My heart aches for all of you in situations simila... My heart aches for all of you in situations similar to this but, because you have shared your story, Eden, especially you. I wish I had words of comfort to offer but the best I can find are the ones that let you know you're all in my prayers. Best wishes 💗Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-9973503549772780162017-10-06T16:33:19.203-05:002017-10-06T16:33:19.203-05:00I'VE MISSED YOU!!!! Glad to see you pop in! Ye...I'VE MISSED YOU!!!! Glad to see you pop in! Yes, so much has changed!!!! <br /><br />You are right :) I did conquer! No matter what comes next, his OWN attorney told him he has no case!!!<br /><br />YAAAYYY!!!!NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-9134408998475524982017-10-06T16:29:08.695-05:002017-10-06T16:29:08.695-05:00I truly, truly cannot imagine that either of them ...I truly, truly cannot imagine that either of them are happy, you are so very right about that. As Mr. Attorney Man told me, "I'm sure she is living the nightmare right now!" There is no way any woman could call him her dream man. Even if he treats her amazingly (doubt it), he has such an incredible streak of irresponsibility and broken personality, that there is no way he is able to make a happy and secure home/relationship for anyone. No freaking way. The more I think about it, and the more I hear about the kids they have now, the more I realize that she has to be a lot like him :( <br /><br />Thank you for your insights!!! And your encouragement :)NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-81769842884355321282017-10-06T16:26:05.617-05:002017-10-06T16:26:05.617-05:00Thank you love <3Thank you love <3NotMyShametoBearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679891969349514369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-90913935996605915602017-10-06T16:23:19.439-05:002017-10-06T16:23:19.439-05:00I have a friend going through something very simil...I have a friend going through something very similar and I go to court with her if only to be her support.. both your waste of skin and hers I want to badly hurt.. it kills me ( and ALL of us I’m quite sure) to “see” you have to go through this.. just know you have prayers and support from many people who have you and your family’s back.. 💜💜Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-30139743054308025242017-10-06T16:22:59.449-05:002017-10-06T16:22:59.449-05:00I can't tell you how much it means to me that ...I can't tell you how much it means to me that you share your heart and experiences, even during these difficulties. The man sounds like a narcissistic sociopath. It is a wonder that two exceptional children with humor, kindness, and charm come from that. I wish you didn't have to deal with this, I wish I could take it away, but I sit here in awe of your humanity, beauty, and courage.Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-47200579858510906712017-10-06T16:22:13.866-05:002017-10-06T16:22:13.866-05:00I got to thinking after posting and started wonder... I got to thinking after posting and started wondering if I'd overstepped. I know how personal this is for those involved. My apologies, if I did. I can relate to this subject much too well and my brain doesn't always behave when I need it to. LOL. I'm betting you have lots of folks praying for you, and more so for your babies. I hope there's comfort in the knowledge. Back to my cubbyhole... 🙏😊Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-55781960815259883602017-10-06T14:27:05.961-05:002017-10-06T14:27:05.961-05:00 Have you heard Praying by Kesha? I think it shoul... Have you heard Praying by Kesha? I think it should be your anthem!Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-4336031812449704172017-10-06T14:05:07.558-05:002017-10-06T14:05:07.558-05:00This is the old Flaming from the east coast. I am ...This is the old Flaming from the east coast. I am such a doofus I can't find my profile anywhere. lol <br /><br />Eden, you did it! You decided to use the courts to make him pay for his children. I am doing a Happy Dance over here on the east coast! I am sorry the process of going to court took you back to a dark place. But, YOU did it! That is why you are Eden STRONG because you are much stronger than you were before. You have been fighting the good fight (mostly alone) for so long and now you have more support than ever - AND you were victorious!!! Give yourself a huge pat on the back and just feel the hugs and support coming to you from the east coast and elsewhere!<br /><br />So much has happened in your life since we chatted long ago, I have to catch up! Congratulations on your marriage to a wonderful man and a new baby! I am so excited for you! <br /><br />Please don't let the court day bring you down for too long. He is not worth another second of stealing your joy and happiness. You faced the monster, used the process and conquered! Have your cry and let those feelings wash over you and leave your mind, body and spirit. I know this is easier said than done. Do something that makes you feel good (or better). Everything you are going through today is soooo very understandable. Those of us who have been through a nightmare can relate. I think all of us will have bad days - sometimes for no reason other than our own memories which will probably haunt us forever. He is a non-entity - other than a check in your mailbox. <br /><br />I can't wait to hear you are feeling better about all that has transpired and find some peace for yourself. There is always tomorrow. It will be a new sunrise and a new day. That is what kept you and us going. It will happen. You will feel stronger than today.<br /><br />I have missed reading how you and the children are doing. Looks like so much has changed for the better! Looking forward to reading about everything that has happened!<br /><br />Take good care of you! You are worth so very much goodness in this life!Flamingohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16105570132746033122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-6710030793552574392017-10-06T13:54:36.115-05:002017-10-06T13:54:36.115-05:00I agree 100%!!! Not even fit to breathe the same a...I agree 100%!!! Not even fit to breathe the same air! I pray karma gets him good!Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-29985608107794504172017-10-06T13:54:14.893-05:002017-10-06T13:54:14.893-05:00*hugs**hugs*Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-44072638459444622402017-10-06T13:53:52.863-05:002017-10-06T13:53:52.863-05:00oh no!! i’m so sorry. i wish i could give you big ...oh no!! i’m so sorry. i wish i could give you big hugsFacebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-25145374131093790572017-10-06T13:53:33.417-05:002017-10-06T13:53:33.417-05:00I hope you actually get the money from him this ti...I hope you actually get the money from him this time. Good for you for not letting him get out paymentFacebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-28296650648007206212017-10-06T13:53:13.903-05:002017-10-06T13:53:13.903-05:00So his attorney shows up late and then applies pre...So his attorney shows up late and then applies pressure because the idiot ex has to get to work? This all happens after they drop the other bomb on you the night before? All of that was carefully planned and none of it was by accident. I hope your next post has something good to report. Even if it doesn't, find comfort in the life you have now, which to an outsider, seems to be going very well.Facebooknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-27819226023146922882017-10-06T12:41:48.841-05:002017-10-06T12:41:48.841-05:00I know this is easier said than done, but try view...I know this is easier said than done, but try viewing it from a different perspective. I was in a similar situation, and over the years, I started looking at the person with disgust rather than fear; began seeing myself as the survivor/victor because my life was now good, and in a sense, laughing at him because he was the same loser from before. His critique of my appearance, weight, etc.- I began telling myself that I could lose weight and that he simply couldn't fix ugly. I knew he would never truly be happy because he was such an unhappy person...that is your ex. He laughs and mocks because he is still unhappy and although he has 'moved on', he truly hasn't. From what you have shared, you have a BEAUTIFUL life. Amazing kids, a loving supporting husband....I am sure that eats him up inside that he is no longer keeping you down. Keep your head up and relish what you have survived, what you have accomplished despite, and where you are now. Knowing people like that don't ever change, I am sure he is making his present wife miserable, and if she is helping him neglect his kids, it sounds like she deserves every bit of it! Cheers!! <3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-13680973650946113272017-10-06T12:26:24.431-05:002017-10-06T12:26:24.431-05:00He used the element of surprise to throw you off ...He used the element of surprise to throw you off balance and control you again. What a dick.😡<br />Hang in honey..... karma is taking longer than you'd like but it's comingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4828879467490478491.post-19872719868507834882017-10-06T12:16:31.488-05:002017-10-06T12:16:31.488-05:00 *hugs* *hugs*Facebooknoreply@blogger.com